
What could be better than getting together every few weeks, spending the morning cooking and eating and laughing and, occasionally, learning?
Not a thing, according to the response to the questionnaire I sent to the Wednesday Lunch Group.
I remember the day, two years ago next month, that this group first met in the Ninecooks kitchen to plan our cooking future (the hardest thing was finding a day of the week, and time of day, that fit into everyone's schedules). As each person arrived, he or she discovered with delight at least one other familiar face. In some cases, friendships went back twenty years or more. Nobody knew everyone in the kitchen, but everyone knew someone.
Our first actual cooking date was in November 2004. Today, the same seven cooks have become friends. One was married earlier this year, and invited everyone in the group to the wedding. We've welcomed into the kitchen one daughter and one sister. We've shared tales of woe about our parents, our in-laws, our kids and grandkids, our ex-spouses.
In other words, we've grown into a family, in the best sense of the word.
And we're a pretty happy family, as it turns out. Last Spring, at the end of our cooking season, I asked the group to consider: the frequency of our group cooking; the mix of menus and skills taught; the level of chaos (really!) — do we make too many things at once, too few, etc.; food cost; skills and topics of interest they're like to explore; field trips and ingredient tastings; and willingness to teach.
I didn't hear from everyone, but here's the response to date:
1. We're cooking every 5-6 weeks, which everyone feels is just right.
2. Most people are happy with the mix of menu and skills; one person asked that we focus more on method. Will do.
3. Everyone felt the food cost is reasonable. Each person is assigned a shopping list prior to our cooking sessions; I try to keep the cost between $5 and $10 per person, and I provide the pantry items.
4. Particular topics of interest: curries and Indian dishes, Mexican, US regional cooking, one-pot, lunches, potluck dishes. Yes, to all.
5. Most would like occasional field trips, but not in place of cooking together.
6. One person is willing to teach, and another is willing to consider it. That's great. Meanwhile, they seem happy enough with me (whew).
My favorite feedback nugget? "I use the recipes when I need to 'wow' someone!"
Wow!